• Husband Catches Mike Etaba In Hotel With His Wife, Confronts Him.
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    Husband Catches Mike Etaba In Hotel With His Wife, Confronts Him. https://x.com/TrendingEx/status/2052644249766617150?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E2052644249766617150%7Ctwgr%5E8797343389ce52341e74daac0d6d58fad58f3bac%7Ctwcon%5Es1_c10&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nairaland.com%2F8668019%2Fhusband-catches-mike-etaba-hotel
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  • Student Shot Dead At UNIBEN Main Gate .
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    Student Shot Dead At UNIBEN Main Gate . https://x.com/Starpotternews/status/2053550645945286936?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E2053550645945286936%7Ctwgr%5E816b1688873022c3d872e85ef5606186c0f12793%7Ctwcon%5Es1_c10&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nairaland.com%2F8669279%2Fstudent-shot-dead-uniben-main
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  • Why Most Nigerians Run Out Of Money Halfway Through Building Their House.
    Why Most Nigerians Run Out of Money Halfway Through Building Their House


    The "Finish-to-Finish" Trap: Why Your Budget is Lying to You


    We’ve all seen them. The "skeleton" houses scattered across Ikorodu, Mowe-Ibafo, or the outskirts of Abuja. Roofless, windowless, and abandoned for years.


    Many people start with ₦20M in the bank, thinking they’ll be moving in by December. By June, they are struggling to buy a single bag of cement. As a professional in this field, I see the same mistakes repeated every single day.


    If you don't want your house to become a "monument" for goats and weeds, here is why your money might disappear halfway:


    1. The "Spirit of Finishing" vs. The Reality of Rough Work
    Most Nigerians budget for the "structure"—blocks, sand, cement, and roofing. They forget that finishing is where the real money lives.


    The Reality: The carcass (foundation to roofing) usually takes about 40–50% of the budget.


    The Trap: Tiling, POP, electrical wiring, plumbing, and painting take the other 50–60%. People get excited when the roof goes up, thinking they are "almost done," only to find out they haven't even started spending the big money.


    2. Soil Blindness (The Foundation Money-Pit)
    Many builders refuse to do a proper soil test because it costs ₦150k–₦1M. They prefer to "estimate."
    Then they start digging.
    Suddenly, they realize the ground is swampy or too soft. What was supposed to be a simple strip foundation becomes a Raft Foundation or Piling. Boom! Your budget just increased by ₦5M before the first block was even laid.


    3. The "OWO Omo-Onile" and Community Tax
    If you don't factor in "settlement," your project will stop. From "signing of documents" to "foundation fee," "decking fee," and "roofing fee," these community levies can drain hundreds of thousands that were never in the spreadsheet.


    4. Material Inflation and the "Naira Factor"
    In Nigeria, the price of cement in the morning isn't always the price in the evening.


    2024–2025 Lessons: We saw cement jump from ₦9,000 to ₦13,000+ in some areas within months.


    Iron Rods: Don't even get me started on the price of T12 or Y16 rods.
    If you aren't buying your materials in bulk or at least "locking in" prices with trusted suppliers, inflation will eat your project alive.


    5. The "God Will Provide" Construction Strategy
    This is the biggest killer. People start building a 5-bedroom duplex when they only have the money for a 3-bedroom bungalow, hoping that "more money will come" while the project is on.
    Construction doesn't care about your faith; it cares about your cash flow. If the money stops, the cement hardens, the wood rots, and the rain washes away your efforts.


    How to Avoid Being a "Halfway Builder"
    Use a Quantity Surveyor (QS): Stop using your "trusted mason" to estimate costs. Get a professional Bill of Quantities (BOQ). It will tell you the exact number of bags, rods, and trips of sand you need.


    Build in Phases: If you don't have the ₦50M+ needed for a full build, start with a "Pay-As-You-Go" approach. Finish the foundation, let it rest. Save up. Do the blockwork.


    Prioritize Function over Luxury: You can move into a house with basic tiles and "all-white" paint. You don't need the most expensive Italian marble or gold-plated chandeliers on day one.


    On-Site Security: Theft is a silent budget killer. Bags of cement and electrical wires have "legs" on Nigerian sites. If you aren't there or don't have a solid security plan, you’re buying materials for the whole neighborhood.


    What about you? What’s the biggest "unforeseen" expense you’ve faced while building? Let's discuss below.
    Why Most Nigerians Run Out Of Money Halfway Through Building Their House. Why Most Nigerians Run Out of Money Halfway Through Building Their House The "Finish-to-Finish" Trap: Why Your Budget is Lying to You We’ve all seen them. The "skeleton" houses scattered across Ikorodu, Mowe-Ibafo, or the outskirts of Abuja. Roofless, windowless, and abandoned for years. Many people start with ₦20M in the bank, thinking they’ll be moving in by December. By June, they are struggling to buy a single bag of cement. As a professional in this field, I see the same mistakes repeated every single day. If you don't want your house to become a "monument" for goats and weeds, here is why your money might disappear halfway: 1. The "Spirit of Finishing" vs. The Reality of Rough Work Most Nigerians budget for the "structure"—blocks, sand, cement, and roofing. They forget that finishing is where the real money lives. The Reality: The carcass (foundation to roofing) usually takes about 40–50% of the budget. The Trap: Tiling, POP, electrical wiring, plumbing, and painting take the other 50–60%. People get excited when the roof goes up, thinking they are "almost done," only to find out they haven't even started spending the big money. 2. Soil Blindness (The Foundation Money-Pit) Many builders refuse to do a proper soil test because it costs ₦150k–₦1M. They prefer to "estimate." Then they start digging. Suddenly, they realize the ground is swampy or too soft. What was supposed to be a simple strip foundation becomes a Raft Foundation or Piling. Boom! Your budget just increased by ₦5M before the first block was even laid. 3. The "OWO Omo-Onile" and Community Tax If you don't factor in "settlement," your project will stop. From "signing of documents" to "foundation fee," "decking fee," and "roofing fee," these community levies can drain hundreds of thousands that were never in the spreadsheet. 4. Material Inflation and the "Naira Factor" In Nigeria, the price of cement in the morning isn't always the price in the evening. 2024–2025 Lessons: We saw cement jump from ₦9,000 to ₦13,000+ in some areas within months. Iron Rods: Don't even get me started on the price of T12 or Y16 rods. If you aren't buying your materials in bulk or at least "locking in" prices with trusted suppliers, inflation will eat your project alive. 5. The "God Will Provide" Construction Strategy This is the biggest killer. People start building a 5-bedroom duplex when they only have the money for a 3-bedroom bungalow, hoping that "more money will come" while the project is on. Construction doesn't care about your faith; it cares about your cash flow. If the money stops, the cement hardens, the wood rots, and the rain washes away your efforts. How to Avoid Being a "Halfway Builder" Use a Quantity Surveyor (QS): Stop using your "trusted mason" to estimate costs. Get a professional Bill of Quantities (BOQ). It will tell you the exact number of bags, rods, and trips of sand you need. Build in Phases: If you don't have the ₦50M+ needed for a full build, start with a "Pay-As-You-Go" approach. Finish the foundation, let it rest. Save up. Do the blockwork. Prioritize Function over Luxury: You can move into a house with basic tiles and "all-white" paint. You don't need the most expensive Italian marble or gold-plated chandeliers on day one. On-Site Security: Theft is a silent budget killer. Bags of cement and electrical wires have "legs" on Nigerian sites. If you aren't there or don't have a solid security plan, you’re buying materials for the whole neighborhood. What about you? What’s the biggest "unforeseen" expense you’ve faced while building? Let's discuss below.
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  • Lecturer Caught Sleeping With Female Student In Classroom At Tansian University .
    A Reverend Father, who is reportedly a lecturer at Tansian University, has allegedly been caught making out with a female student inside one of the institution’s classrooms.


    The incident, which has stirred reactions online and within the university community, was reportedly discovered under unclear circumstances. Details surrounding the identities of those involved and the exact time of the incident remain unconfirmed as of the time of filing this report.


    The university management has yet to release an official statement regarding the allegation. Meanwhile, students and social media users continue to react to the development, with many calling for a proper investigation into the matter.
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    Lecturer Caught Sleeping With Female Student In Classroom At Tansian University . A Reverend Father, who is reportedly a lecturer at Tansian University, has allegedly been caught making out with a female student inside one of the institution’s classrooms. The incident, which has stirred reactions online and within the university community, was reportedly discovered under unclear circumstances. Details surrounding the identities of those involved and the exact time of the incident remain unconfirmed as of the time of filing this report. The university management has yet to release an official statement regarding the allegation. Meanwhile, students and social media users continue to react to the development, with many calling for a proper investigation into the matter. https://x.com/Starpotternews/status/2054161389976011193?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E2054161389976011193%7Ctwgr%5E4aa78847a4307240c0ab6d1cad0a4eb7ee5b98d7%7Ctwcon%5Es1_c10&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nairaland.com%2F8670283%2Flecturer-caught-sleeping-female-student
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  • Trump Warns Taiwan Against Declaring Independence, Hours After Summit With China.
    "I'm not looking to have somebody go independent," the US president told Fox News on Friday, at the end of his two-day summit with his Chinese counterpart Xi Jinping in Beijing.


    Trump earlier said he had "made no commitment either way" about the self-governing island - which China claims as part of its territory and has not ruled out taking by force.


    The US has long supported Taiwan, including being bound by law to provide it with a means of self-defence, but has frequently had to square this alliance with maintaining a diplomatic relationship with China.


    Washington's established position is that it does not support Taiwanese independence, with continued ties with Beijing being contingent on its acceptance that there is only one Chinese government.


    Many Taiwanese consider themselves to be part of a separate nation - though most are in favour of maintaining the status quo in which Taiwan neither declares independence from China nor unites with it.


    In his interview with Fox News, Trump reiterated that US policy on the matter had not changed.


    "You know, we're supposed to travel 9,500 miles (15,289km) to fight a war. I'm not looking for that. I want them to cool down. I want China to cool down."


    On the flight back to Washington, the US president had told reporters that he and Xi had spoken "a lot" about the island, but said he had declined to discuss whether the US would defend it.


    Xi "feels very strongly" about the island and "doesn't want to see a movement for independence", Trump said.


    "The Taiwan question is the most important issue in China-US relations," Xi warned during the talks, according to Chinese state media, adding: "If mishandled, the two nations could collide or even come into conflict."


    Asked if he foresaw a conflict with China over Taiwan, Trump had said: "No, I don't think so. I think we'll be fine. [Xi] doesn't want to see a war."


    China has ramped up military drills around the island in recent years, raising tensions in the region and testing the balance that Washington has struck.


    Late last year, the Trump administration announced an $11bn ($8bn) package of weapons to be sold to Taiwan, including advanced rocket launchers and a variety of missiles, which Beijing condemned.


    Trump said he would soon decide whether that sale could go ahead, adding that he and Xi had discussed it "in great detail" and that he would speak to Taiwan's President Lai Ching-te first.


    "I may do it. I may not do it," he told Fox News.


    "We're not looking to have wars, and if you kept it the way it is, I think China's going to be OK with that. But we're not looking to have somebody say, 'Let's go independent because the United States is backing us'."


    The US has previously provoked anger from China for seeming to soften its stance on independence.


    Its State Department dropped a statement from its website reiterating Washington's opposition to Taiwanese independence in February 2025 - something Beijing said "sends a wrong... signal to separatist forces".


    US officials in Taiwan said at the time: "We have long stated that we oppose any unilateral changes to the status quo from either side."




    Taiwan's Foreign Minister Lin Chia-lung said his team had been monitoring the US-China summit, and had maintained good communication with the US and other countries "to ensure the stable deepening of Taiwan-US relations and safeguard Taiwan's interests".


    He said Taiwan had always been a "guardian of peace and stability" in the region and accused China of escalating risk with its "aggressive military actions and authoritarian oppression".
    Trump Warns Taiwan Against Declaring Independence, Hours After Summit With China. "I'm not looking to have somebody go independent," the US president told Fox News on Friday, at the end of his two-day summit with his Chinese counterpart Xi Jinping in Beijing. Trump earlier said he had "made no commitment either way" about the self-governing island - which China claims as part of its territory and has not ruled out taking by force. The US has long supported Taiwan, including being bound by law to provide it with a means of self-defence, but has frequently had to square this alliance with maintaining a diplomatic relationship with China. Washington's established position is that it does not support Taiwanese independence, with continued ties with Beijing being contingent on its acceptance that there is only one Chinese government. Many Taiwanese consider themselves to be part of a separate nation - though most are in favour of maintaining the status quo in which Taiwan neither declares independence from China nor unites with it. In his interview with Fox News, Trump reiterated that US policy on the matter had not changed. "You know, we're supposed to travel 9,500 miles (15,289km) to fight a war. I'm not looking for that. I want them to cool down. I want China to cool down." On the flight back to Washington, the US president had told reporters that he and Xi had spoken "a lot" about the island, but said he had declined to discuss whether the US would defend it. Xi "feels very strongly" about the island and "doesn't want to see a movement for independence", Trump said. "The Taiwan question is the most important issue in China-US relations," Xi warned during the talks, according to Chinese state media, adding: "If mishandled, the two nations could collide or even come into conflict." Asked if he foresaw a conflict with China over Taiwan, Trump had said: "No, I don't think so. I think we'll be fine. [Xi] doesn't want to see a war." China has ramped up military drills around the island in recent years, raising tensions in the region and testing the balance that Washington has struck. Late last year, the Trump administration announced an $11bn ($8bn) package of weapons to be sold to Taiwan, including advanced rocket launchers and a variety of missiles, which Beijing condemned. Trump said he would soon decide whether that sale could go ahead, adding that he and Xi had discussed it "in great detail" and that he would speak to Taiwan's President Lai Ching-te first. "I may do it. I may not do it," he told Fox News. "We're not looking to have wars, and if you kept it the way it is, I think China's going to be OK with that. But we're not looking to have somebody say, 'Let's go independent because the United States is backing us'." The US has previously provoked anger from China for seeming to soften its stance on independence. Its State Department dropped a statement from its website reiterating Washington's opposition to Taiwanese independence in February 2025 - something Beijing said "sends a wrong... signal to separatist forces". US officials in Taiwan said at the time: "We have long stated that we oppose any unilateral changes to the status quo from either side." Taiwan's Foreign Minister Lin Chia-lung said his team had been monitoring the US-China summit, and had maintained good communication with the US and other countries "to ensure the stable deepening of Taiwan-US relations and safeguard Taiwan's interests". He said Taiwan had always been a "guardian of peace and stability" in the region and accused China of escalating risk with its "aggressive military actions and authoritarian oppression".
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  • Nigerian Man Storms Ex-Girlfriend's House After Breakup, Retrieves Unusual Items He Bought For Her


    A Nigerian man reportedly visited his ex-girlfriend’s residence and decided to cut all ties with her, both physically and materially, following their breakup.


    The incident allegedly occurred after the man caught his partner cheating on him with another person.


    A witness who filmed the scene expressed surprise that such events happen in real life and not just on social media
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    Drama unfolded at a residential compound after a man allegedly stormed his ex-girlfriend’s apartment to retrieve items he had bought for her.


    The incident, which was captured in a viral video, showed the man packing up several properties he had previously gifted the woman.


    Eyewitness shares detailed account following breakup


    According to a witness, @veeria_thriftque, who shared the video on TikTok, the boyfriend arrived at the house to take back his things after allegedly catching her cheating.


    Among the items the estranged boyfriend carried were a cupboard, a bed, a bed frame, buckets, bags, and a gas cooker, among other items.


    The witness expressed surprise at seeing such a situation happen in real life, noting that she had only seen similar incidents on social media.


    The caption attached to the video read:


    "Boyfriend came to pack things he got for his gf after he caught her. Nah online I dey always see things like this but I see am today for my compound korokoro."


    Social media users react to the video
    The video has gathered over 331,200 views and more than 33,000 likes at the time of this report.


    Symply Jummai said:


    "The room go don dey echo by now."
    CHRISTO DE REALTOR said:


    "It hurts when you're investing in someone and planning the future with them only for the person to have a different plan."
    Bridge_homes said:


    "You can't keep using company's official car after resigning."
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    Nigerian Man Storms Ex-Girlfriend's House After Breakup, Retrieves Unusual Items He Bought For Her A Nigerian man reportedly visited his ex-girlfriend’s residence and decided to cut all ties with her, both physically and materially, following their breakup. The incident allegedly occurred after the man caught his partner cheating on him with another person. A witness who filmed the scene expressed surprise that such events happen in real life and not just on social media Find it fast with our new search feature at Legit.ng! Drama unfolded at a residential compound after a man allegedly stormed his ex-girlfriend’s apartment to retrieve items he had bought for her. The incident, which was captured in a viral video, showed the man packing up several properties he had previously gifted the woman. Eyewitness shares detailed account following breakup According to a witness, @veeria_thriftque, who shared the video on TikTok, the boyfriend arrived at the house to take back his things after allegedly catching her cheating. Among the items the estranged boyfriend carried were a cupboard, a bed, a bed frame, buckets, bags, and a gas cooker, among other items. The witness expressed surprise at seeing such a situation happen in real life, noting that she had only seen similar incidents on social media. The caption attached to the video read: "Boyfriend came to pack things he got for his gf after he caught her. Nah online I dey always see things like this but I see am today for my compound korokoro." Social media users react to the video The video has gathered over 331,200 views and more than 33,000 likes at the time of this report. Symply Jummai said: "The room go don dey echo by now." CHRISTO DE REALTOR said: "It hurts when you're investing in someone and planning the future with them only for the person to have a different plan." Bridge_homes said: "You can't keep using company's official car after resigning." https://www.tiktok.com/video/7637555009449692433
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  • Lady Who Rejected Suitor Twice Seeks Advice After He Married Her Younger Sister.
    Lady who rejected suitor twice seeks advice after he married her younger sisterA Nigerian woman has sparked widespread reactions online after opening up about her growing resentment towards her younger sister, who eventually married a man that once proposed to her.




    In a lengthy post shared by a user on X, the woman admitted feeling hurt, embarrassed and replaced after discovering that the wealthy man she rejected years ago later married her younger sister.


    According to her, the man had proposed to her twice, but she turned him down because she was unsure about his financial status at the time.She explained that the man later met her younger sister and proposed to her without knowing they were related. Her sister accepted the proposal, and the relationship quickly progressed into marriage.


    The woman said the man only discovered they were sisters when he visited their family home for the bride price introduction.


    Narrating her frustration, she revealed that the man is now financially successful, working as an accountant while also running businesses in the city.She lamented that despite his wealth, she has no direct access to financial help from him because he always tells her to pass through her younger sister whenever she asks for assistance.


    According to her, the younger sister only gives her between ₦45,000 and ₦55,000 occasionally, despite allegedly receiving close to ₦700,000 from her husband regularly.


    The woman further claimed that her sister gives both their parents and her husband’s mother about ₦150,000 each monthly, yet refuses to support her salon business.She wrote that she had repeatedly begged her younger sister to help equip her salon, which would cost around ₦900,000 to ₦1 million, but her requests were constantly turned down.


    The woman accused her sister of trying to outshine and belittle her as the first child in the family.


    She admitted that watching her younger sister financially support the family while she struggles has left her feeling ashamed and emotionally hurt.


    In her words, she believes her younger sister’s actions are making her appear irresponsible because she is currently unable to support their parents financially.


    The emotional post read partly: “Pls, I need serious advice. I know it’s my mistake, but hear me out. A man came & proposed to me twice, & I rejected his proposal cuz I didn’t have full information about his financial status.


    “The guy was too impatient. Somehow he met my sister then went ahead & proposed her. Actually, he didn’t know we’re related. She accepted him so easily. They went ahead & got married.”


    She continued: “The issue here is that the man is an accountant. He also runs businesses in the city. He is a rich man. When I ask for money from him, he tells me to pass through my sister.”


    The woman also admitted nursing bitterness towards her younger sister over the situation.


    “Most times, i feel she’s doing all these things especially giving our parents allowances every month as financial support and at the same time refusing to help me so i can also stand on my feet is cuz she wants to show off or probably belittle me.”




    She concluded by expressing deep emotional pain over feeling replaced as the first child.


    “I honestly feel so embarrassed & hurt as a first child. I’m truly hurt watching my sister trying to take my place as the first born. I feel ashamed, It’s embarrassing & I can’t help but nurse hatred for her.”
    Lady Who Rejected Suitor Twice Seeks Advice After He Married Her Younger Sister. Lady who rejected suitor twice seeks advice after he married her younger sisterA Nigerian woman has sparked widespread reactions online after opening up about her growing resentment towards her younger sister, who eventually married a man that once proposed to her. In a lengthy post shared by a user on X, the woman admitted feeling hurt, embarrassed and replaced after discovering that the wealthy man she rejected years ago later married her younger sister. According to her, the man had proposed to her twice, but she turned him down because she was unsure about his financial status at the time.She explained that the man later met her younger sister and proposed to her without knowing they were related. Her sister accepted the proposal, and the relationship quickly progressed into marriage. The woman said the man only discovered they were sisters when he visited their family home for the bride price introduction. Narrating her frustration, she revealed that the man is now financially successful, working as an accountant while also running businesses in the city.She lamented that despite his wealth, she has no direct access to financial help from him because he always tells her to pass through her younger sister whenever she asks for assistance. According to her, the younger sister only gives her between ₦45,000 and ₦55,000 occasionally, despite allegedly receiving close to ₦700,000 from her husband regularly. The woman further claimed that her sister gives both their parents and her husband’s mother about ₦150,000 each monthly, yet refuses to support her salon business.She wrote that she had repeatedly begged her younger sister to help equip her salon, which would cost around ₦900,000 to ₦1 million, but her requests were constantly turned down. The woman accused her sister of trying to outshine and belittle her as the first child in the family. She admitted that watching her younger sister financially support the family while she struggles has left her feeling ashamed and emotionally hurt. In her words, she believes her younger sister’s actions are making her appear irresponsible because she is currently unable to support their parents financially. The emotional post read partly: “Pls, I need serious advice. I know it’s my mistake, but hear me out. A man came & proposed to me twice, & I rejected his proposal cuz I didn’t have full information about his financial status. “The guy was too impatient. Somehow he met my sister then went ahead & proposed her. Actually, he didn’t know we’re related. She accepted him so easily. They went ahead & got married.” She continued: “The issue here is that the man is an accountant. He also runs businesses in the city. He is a rich man. When I ask for money from him, he tells me to pass through my sister.” The woman also admitted nursing bitterness towards her younger sister over the situation. “Most times, i feel she’s doing all these things especially giving our parents allowances every month as financial support and at the same time refusing to help me so i can also stand on my feet is cuz she wants to show off or probably belittle me.” She concluded by expressing deep emotional pain over feeling replaced as the first child. “I honestly feel so embarrassed & hurt as a first child. I’m truly hurt watching my sister trying to take my place as the first born. I feel ashamed, It’s embarrassing & I can’t help but nurse hatred for her.”
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  • Claimed She Was Virgin, Rushed Engagement.
    Please house, I need mature advice. This matter is tearing me apart.


    I met this lady (a doctor)
    4 months ago. I'm 35, she is 31.
    She told me she was a virgin and I believed her because of how she carried herself. I was very happy and rushed everything – introduction, engagement, and marriage plans (I promised my mum that I would get married before December 2026). We were supposed to do our traditional marriage in one week’s time.


    Last week, I received an anonymous WhatsApp message. The person sent pregnancy test results showing that my fiancée was pregnant for her ex-boyfriend during her 1-year residency. She had told me about this ex, but said they never had sex, and that was why they broke up.
    I confronted her with the message. At first, she denied it and said it was fake, someone trying to spoil her name. But when I said I would call her best friend to confirm, she broke down and confessed the truth.
    She admitted she got pregnant for the ex, aborted it immediately, and promised herself never to have premarital sex again. She said she was ashamed and didn’t want to lose me, so she lied about being a virgin.
    Now I’m confused and heartbroken. I love her but the lies are too much.
    On the other hand, I have already invited many people – including the chief of my village and my manager at work. Cancelling now will bring serious shame and talk in my village and workplace.


    Please Nairalanders, what should I do? Should I go ahead with the marriage or cancel everything? Has anyone been in this kind of situation?


    I need honest advice.
    Claimed She Was Virgin, Rushed Engagement. Please house, I need mature advice. This matter is tearing me apart. I met this lady (a doctor) 4 months ago. I'm 35, she is 31. She told me she was a virgin and I believed her because of how she carried herself. I was very happy and rushed everything – introduction, engagement, and marriage plans (I promised my mum that I would get married before December 2026). We were supposed to do our traditional marriage in one week’s time. Last week, I received an anonymous WhatsApp message. The person sent pregnancy test results showing that my fiancée was pregnant for her ex-boyfriend during her 1-year residency. She had told me about this ex, but said they never had sex, and that was why they broke up. I confronted her with the message. At first, she denied it and said it was fake, someone trying to spoil her name. But when I said I would call her best friend to confirm, she broke down and confessed the truth. She admitted she got pregnant for the ex, aborted it immediately, and promised herself never to have premarital sex again. She said she was ashamed and didn’t want to lose me, so she lied about being a virgin. Now I’m confused and heartbroken. I love her but the lies are too much. On the other hand, I have already invited many people – including the chief of my village and my manager at work. Cancelling now will bring serious shame and talk in my village and workplace. Please Nairalanders, what should I do? Should I go ahead with the marriage or cancel everything? Has anyone been in this kind of situation? I need honest advice.
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